Purbeck Memories

The Ford Family

by Belinda Norman - edited by Sue Mills

 

 

Dad was born in Worth Matravers, at Channel View, which was a wooden bungalow situated opposite the Square and Compass, just up from Miss Begbie’s ‘Seal Cottage’. Mum’s parents had lived in Worth, at the old stable house that was closest to the dairy yard of Compact Farm. That was when they were first married, a bit of a shotgun wedding between the Farmer’s son and the Catholic Dairy Maid.

Granddad’s mother was Louisa Martha Ford nee Hunt. Her family ancestors were Robert Hunt and Peggy Shepherd, and Robert Hunt Junior and Eliza Corben, followed by Robert Hunt and Martha Miller Stone, who were her parents. Within that earlier mix was Bower, Sanders/Saunders, Miller-Stone, and several others that go back to the early Worth Matravers registers, as well as other wider Purbeck and Dorset based Ancestors. I’ve managed somehow to not be too related to myself with the Purbeck Ancestors, although there’s been a few close shaves, I’m sure.
 

Dorset Blue Vinney
 

At Compact Farm, Grandad George Ellis Ford was initially employed as an extra dairy hand and looking after the farm horses. He told me that there had also been Dorset Blue Vinney produced at Weston’s old dairy, and that he was also involved in that, but it had become not such a popular cheese, and so it was considered not worthwhile continuing with the re-establishing of the production of it for long.

The production had still been going on up until 1923, and as Grandad was at Compact Farm starting from the April of 1926, it appears that farmer Strange had thought about re-establishing the production of Dorset Blue Vinney between 1923 and up until late 1926 and given it up altogether in perhaps the autumn of 1926. Then making use of the cheese making equipment that was still there in the building closest to where the Bottle-green Barley-Beef silo is, which was apparently still there when Farmer Strange purchased the last part of Weston Farm.

And from what I recall Granddad saying, that part of Weston had not been sold on again until 1923, and he thought that it had been bought in the first Worth Sale of 1919, and the farmer who bought it then, had held onto his part of Weston from 1919 up until 1923. Then Farmer Strange bought that final bit of Weston from him, which to me does seem quite accurate that not long after April 1926, the production of Blue Vinney was ceased altogether at Worth Matravers.

Another villager, Olive Miller nee Grant, had mentioned to me about the cheese making in that building and described the large wide wooden trough and watching the men and some of the women working on it and the butter churning and the bulging, drooping, dripping cloths hanging over pans during cottage cheese and clotted cream making. I think that it was Dora Wallace nee Lander who had mentioned it to me too, and Dora also talked about the sail cloths that had washed ashore being dragged up from Chapmans Pool and hoisted up between two long poles in the village gardens, hung to dry, tears stitched and then the canvas sail cloths were sold on to the farmers for covering their haystacks.

Copper rods were used in the Blue Vinney production I think, and when Granddad moved to Race Farm, at Lychett, he was initially involved in helping with making the cheese, and again he was there looking after the various farm horses and was promised a job in charge of the dairy breeding herd and the heifers. The job was available due to the man who had been doing the job, was supposed to have been leaving, only he never left when Granddad was there. Granddad also worked at Morden, Home Farm and at what is now known as ‘Farmer Palmer’s’, but only to supplement his poor income. So really, he was struggling a bit, and at that point he was just a jobbing farm labourer in the end.
 

Granddad George Ellis Ford
 

Granddad made friends with members of the Singleton family who lived somewhere nearby, and work was a bit of a hit and miss affair. Although he was given good accommodation in one of the cottages near the school, his wages were up and down, depending on what he was sent to work on each week. He then went off briefly to Everton in Hampshire to work for a member of the wider family, then returned to Kimmeridge to help with Swalland when his father was very ill.

Just before the outbreak of WW2, he and the family (five children by then) all moved on to Bindon Dairy, where my Aunt Doreen was born, and was working for Arthur Hansford, where they also made a hard-cheese, along with butter, cottage cheese and clotted cream. The house suffered some damage during a bombing raid at Wool and Bovington, when the Ford children were still in bed. Helen managed to grab Mum, shoving her under the bed and laying on top of her to protect her just seconds before the windows blew in due to the force of a bomb blast nearby. Mum was sent away to stay with the Singleton family while the house and windows were repaired, and later in the early 1950s the Dairy House was demolished and only part of the old barn still exists.

The Ford family (George Ellis Ford and Louisa nee Hargedon and their six children) moved back to Purbeck- Orchard Hill Kingston- just after WW2. There, was the wreckage of a fighter plane in the field in front of the two cottages there, and inside the house was a poor dead cat that had been locked in by the former resident when they left some weeks beforehand. Kingston was where George Ellis Ford’s parents had met and subsequently married, and Granddad became one of the Dairyman for the Encombe Estate.

Initially the cows were milked at Encombe Dairy, but when the new farm manager was appointed and some of the men were then given a different job, which mainly involved clearing hedges, gorse and brambles, my Grandparents and youngest aunt, Doreen shifted off out again to Longham Dairy, then back into Purbeck at Woolgarston (or the other way around). Then finally to Pirbright along the valley road and Harmans Cross where granddad worked at upper Quarr farm, more or less where he’d started from
when his family left him behind under the care of his aunt and uncle.

Back then, they looked after the small herd owned by Granddad’s father William Ellis Ford, who, with his eldest sons set-up at Tarrant so that his brother Bertie Ford could attend Blandford School where he’d been awarded a scholarship due to his musical talent and to also help out a member of the extended family from a female/maternal line within the Ellis and Ford family line.

Granddad George was left behind and attended school at Langton St George’s for a couple of years. His best friend at school was George Grant who was the school’s gardener. Later, I attended Langton St Georges along with his grandsons, Brian and Colin Grant.

After they’d lived at Pirbright, and Granddad was no longer needed and had had a brief spell as a builder’s labourer for my dad and my mum’s brother, my Uncle Bob Ford, off they, my grandparents George and Louisa, went again. They moved to Bovington Camp, where my Granddad George E. Ford was employed as the gardener for the officers and in charge of the main Camp’s flowerbeds. However, he cycled to Worth Matravers on four days per week to do Jo Lawrence’s and Basil Stump’s gardening at their plot adjoining Happy Cottage, which Bert Shepperd formerly of 1 London Row used to do before him. And granddad also did the gardening for Peter and Biddy Newton when they lived at Faraway and had Abbascombe Poultry Farm.

Sometimes when Granddad would ride back to Bovington Camp at the end of his sometimes very long working day, he’d take a nap in the hedge on his way home, or he’d sleep at Old Parliament at Langton Matravers, where my Auntie Dor lived with her first husband Peter Lovell. And on some evenings, Doreen and Peter didn’t know to expect him, so on a couple of occasions a young lady named Yvonne who stayed with them during her holidays, sleeping in their spare bedroom, would get the fright of her life.

After returning from an evening out and when in the bathroom, she noted my Granddad’s false teeth soaking in a glass on the shelf and then running to her bedroom only to find a toothless old man, with a hooked nose, snoring away with his mouth flopped wide open and already in her bed…apparently she screamed the house down and ended up sleeping with my cousins in their room.

Granddad Ford suffered from rheumatoid arthritis; he also had a deformed foot that was broken by a cow stepping on it when he was a young teen. It happened not long after his brother Bertie had died during WW1 in 1918, and nobody seemed to be able to cope with a son with a mere broken foot. There were two soldiers convalescing at Swalland and two other soldiers who had been transferred to the ‘Labour Corp' and had been sent to work at the farm. One of them helped bandage up my granddad, but his mother, my great grandmother, had stopped coming out of her bedroom, apart from helping one of the convalescing soldiers who had been burned I believe.

So, to my Granddad, his parents were not at all sympathetic towards him at the time, and it wasn’t helped a few years later when my Great granddad knocked down a young boy who had run out into his car’s path. The boy had come running out from Cow Lane, Wareham and ran across the road without looking. The boy very sadly subsequently died; he was only five years old. The poor little boy had hit his head on the kerb near to St Martin’s Church, and the small milk-can that he’d been carrying got wedged between the hub and wheel at the front of the car.

According to witnesses’ statements - one witness, being the passenger that William Ellis Ford had picked up at a pub at Lychett (close to where William’s brother Thomas was farming at the time) - and after a couple of test drives undertaken by the coroner, it was established that he had only been driving at about 10 miles per hour. A policeman also said that he had smelt his breath and as far as he could tell he wasn’t drunk. I reckon there’s a chance that seeing as both of them, Mr Ford and the Policeman, were in the Wareham Lodge of ‘The Funny Handshake Brigade’ AKA Masons, it is possible that he was just saying that.

My great grandfather William Ellis Ford paid for the boy’s funeral and flowers and attended it too, but according to my granddad he was never quite the same man after that, and never drove again. He got one of the Curtis men to drive for him after the accident, and he began to look gaunt and thin, eventually dying several years later from lung cancer in 1933, supposedly a highly respected Dorset Farmer. But I can’t help wondering, when looking at the glorifying newspaper report on his death and funeral, if the members of the Hodge family of Cow Lane hated every word that was written about the man that had killed their little boy a few years beforehand.

Now back to Granddad’s deformed broken foot at Swalland farm and the soldier who had bandaged up his foot. That soldier eventually managed to persuade Granddad’s mother, Louisa Ford nee Hunt to call in the Doctor, or more likely it was Nell Moss, my Granddad’s older cousin who acted as Nanny come house maid. She had lived with the Ford family for as long as my Granddad could remember, and previous to Nell Moss (related via the Hunt side) The Nanny come housemaid was a member of the Fooks family, who was related via the Ford side. By that time his foot had set all wonky and twisted; on top of that he was so bow-legged that you could have bowled a couple of pigs side-by side through his legs and his fingers were all knotted up, swollen and gnarled.

His main diet that I recall him eating during the daytime was 'Oxo Slops' (an Oxo beef stock cube dissolved in about three quarters of a pint of boiling water placed in a china pudding basin that contained broken up stale bread soaking in it). When he wasn’t eating ‘Oxo Slops’, he was usually sucking on a Hack’s cough sweet, leaving a trail of the aroma of them as he went along, which led to my dad calling him “Wold ‘ack” in an affectionate way that seemed to amuse the pair of them.

I recall one night, well, the early hours of the morning, Granddad had set off early from Bovington I guess. He arrived at our house where he usually stopped off for a cuppa and would leave his push-bike, occasionally resting his head on the kitchen table for a brief snooze. Then crossing our garden and passing through the gate at the bottom leading to ‘Faraway’ to tend to the Newton’s Garden first, before popping back to our place for his 'Oxo Slops' dinner. Then down the track a little and through the kissing gate (gone since the 1990s) at ‘Downside’ and towards Jo Lawrence’s large plot just below Happy Cottage near to the old stile (long gone too) and the path that led from London Row, towards the upper path to Winspit.

It was still dark outside when Granddad turned up in the early morning; Mum and Dad were asleep in their relatively new elevation/dormer, and bedroom. My bedroom was in the old utility room and my bed was positioned under the new-stairs next to the stone wall and wooden panel on the other side of the kitchen. I’d heard granddad come in, and he had been talking to our dog, ‘Yoko Ono’. I popped to bathroom, passing Granddad as he continued petting our dog, whilst warming his hands up at the same time I expect, and as I was coming back down through the long hallway, there in my ‘bedroom’ kitchen doorway was Dad with his by then defunct shot-gun. My granddad shouted out, “Reggie, Reggie, it’s me, don’t shoot, don’t shoot, it’s me George, Old Hack, don’t shoot me!”
Dad hadn’t used his gun for real for many years before that, which was a good thing, as Dad seemed as horrified and shaken up as my Granddad was at the time.

Granddad Ford’s Ancestors were from all over Purbeck and Dorset; many of the Fords seem to have found it difficult to keep still for very long. The Methodist minister who jointly founded the Methodist school and preached at the Methodist Church at Wareham I think, was John Ford, buried in the Methodist plot at Wareham St Mary’s Church Yard. Those Fords (my direct ancestors) spent their earlier years at Owermoigne, where they were dairy farmers and breeders, and sheep breeders, as well as Blue Vinney and Cottage Cheese producers.

The not-too-distant Ford relatives spread out a bit; some went off towards Lychett and Upton areas. Others went to Steeple and Creech, East Stoke, Arne, Holme Lane, Bradle, Church Knowle, Kimmeridge Farm and Swalland, Woodyhyde, with a brief period at Winspit Cottage, as well as having Woodyhyde at the same time. A few shot off to Canada and to the U.S.A. (especially members of the Woodyhyde and Winspit line) and another branch rented a slot at Quarr Farm’s dairy, and had been at Blashenwell, and across the way at Church Knowle.

Later, that particular branch (my family’s branch) had had Swalland at Kimmeridge and Manor Farm dairy at Tarrant Monkton. They weren’t well off though but took advantage of vacant end-of lease farms and dairies or helped out family members, including loaning cattle and sheep to each-other. There were a couple of them who were Fishermen of Studland and further along the coast nearer to Melcombe and Wyke Regis, and possibly the Ford line had started somewhere near Abbotsbury.

My Granddad George Ellis Ford recalled the times when during two droughts (roughly around 1919 and again in 1922/23) he assisted his father William Ellis Ford with walking the cattle and sheep from Swalland farm to Wareham River so that they could drink; they had to await their turn, as several other farmers had had to do the same. He said that one of the main reasons for Wareham causeway being laid and properly reinforced was for that very reason, and a few farmers contributed towards its general upkeep in the early days, mainly so that the farmers could drive their herds and flocks there to drink, or to the market at Wareham and to Woodbury Fair.

By the time that he was involved though, cattle and sheep were often transported by train or lorry/truck to Dorchester Market. He didn’t mention anything about the routes taken to get them there before the railway, however, he did mention a relative (not sure which branch) who drove his entire flock of sheep, and returned to then drive his herd of Cattle to the outskirts of London, I think setting off from Blandford. And that relative being one of the first market stall holders originating from the Dorset region and opening up a butcher and a grocery store somewhere in the region close to Smithfield with another stall in Portobello Road. He did mention another market and street, but I can’t recall which now, but the same family were still running it, along with their shop at the turn of this century I believe.

Worth Matravers farmers didn’t really have to worry about droughts so much, as they had the benefit of the many springs around here. Those in Langton and Herston would sometimes take their cattle and sheep towards Ulwell at Washpond Lane or towards a wider part of Corfe River.